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made my day...ASHANTI!

2012-02-17T18:27:00.000-06:00

There could never nnnnneeeeevvvvveeeee....eeeeevvvvvveeerrr....EVER! be another Whitney Houston but I really enjoyed this tribute :)

made my day...Shei Atkins "Because of You" (Sneek Peak)

2012-02-05T20:16:00.000-06:00

inspiration.

2012-02-05T17:58:00.000-06:00

TGIF!

2012-02-03T21:26:00.001-06:00

Speak Up! Pt. 2

2012-01-30T19:30:00.002-06:00

Ever had a situation bring everything into full circle?

Well, right now I feel like I am going through that situation right now. I am being put in situations that have definitely caused me to think...seriously think. It is really putting things into perspective.

I was granted an opportunity (or at the time I thought was an opportunity) through work that I figured would show my abilities within my scope. Needless to say, it is the total opposite. So far, I have been given things that I would categorize as work that no one else wants to do. It literally brought me to tears because here I am this guinea pig trying to make it work because I am thinking "oh this is my opportunity" to advance, to show my abilities.

What Ive learned so far is you have to speak up. You may think that just because you are told to do something, it means you have to do it. Not correct even if it is in a working environment. Never go beyond your means or job description. Everyone in that environment makes a check just like you and you cant allow people to use you because they have set in their mind "oh she'll do it." People will be people and will take advantage of you if you allow them to. NO! The answer is no.

All my life I have been a "yesman". That stops now!

Speaking up caused me to see that yes I was given tasks out of my scope and it gave clarity so that the next person does not have to deal with what I went through.

Speaking up made me feel better and helped me to sleep better at night.

Long story short, I cannot wait until February is over so that I can get out of this situation. Never again!

So the moral of the story is dont let people/money deter you from your mental health and standing for yourself. I would much rather have good health and a peace of mind than a million dollars in the bank...think about it.

Hope this makes sense. There is only so much I can tell...you never know whose reading:)

inspiration.

2012-01-30T19:12:00.002-06:00

2012-01-24T20:53:00.001-06:00

Y'all I am going through... When will this nightmare end?

Tell y'all about it later of course

conclusion.

2012-01-23T20:14:00.000-06:00

today i came to the conclusion that no matter how you may try to make something work, it never will if it is not meant to be. sometimes decisions come our way that look like they may be beneficial to you, but every opportunity that knocks just may not be meant to be answered but simply ignored. no matter how hard it knocks, remember another opportunity will come knocking another day.

i guess it is safe to say, i know what i want...thats for sure. so i every experience has a purpose and a lesson to be learned. just make sure you take notes.

iPhone test!!!

2012-01-18T20:52:00.001-06:00

made my day...Shei Atkins "Another Me" Official Video

2012-01-17T20:08:00.002-06:00

Ive Been TAGGED! (yay!)

2012-01-16T21:57:00.000-06:00

I have been tagged by the lovely Dreek♥ - Please go and check her blog out. You will not be disappointed:)

Rules:

You must post 11 random things yourself.
Answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post.
Create 11 new questions for the people you tag to answer.
Go to their blog and tell them that you've tagged them.

Let's get started!

11 Random things about me:

I have 1 younger sister and we are 7 years apart.
I cannot go a day without listening to music.
I have no favorite color.
I sing.
I am a college graduate with a job.
I love butterflies.
Musiq Soulchild is my favorite male artist.
Brandy is my favorite female artist.
I drive a 2005 Nissan Maxima.
When I was little, I dreamed of becoming a professional singer. Boy does time change.
I do more thinking than living.

11 Questions from Dreek♥ :

Where are you from? I am from Houston

Do you wear make-up? No, this needs to change.....well only on special occasions or for church (dont judge me lol)

How many pair of shoes do you own? ( a guesstimate is ok) Hmmmm...I am going to guesstimate around 20.

Are you single? Automatic yes...been single all my life...so sad :(

Do you have pets? No pets...if I did I would have fish.

What is your favorite food to make? My favorite food to make is chocolate chip cookies.

What is your favorite TV show? Hmmmm....It is a tie between Martin and The Game

Do you have a twitter? Yes @Love1FreeDom - I follow back:)

What do you mainly blog about? I mainly blog about God, life, poetry, and music.

How do you feel about GOD? GOD is the center of my joy. He is my maker and there is none above Him! Love Him dearly!

11 people I chose for tagging are:
M I N G
Style4Curves
Purpleskyyys
MY DERNIER CRI
.i heard you were looking for me.
BeautyFash
curvEnvy
Debby
★☆Starrla Monae★☆
♥Nikki Ms.Healthy KISSES♥
Beautiful Rose

11 questions you have to answer from me:

What is your favorite color?
What is your favorite movie?
What motto/saying do you live by and keeps you inspired?
Where are you from?
What is one goal you have accomplished that you never thought would come to pass?
How many siblings do you have?
What is your twitter?
What is your favorite hobby aside from blogging?
Why do you blog?
Where are some places you have traveled to you would recommend?
What is the one thing you cannot live without?

Have fun!

made my day...Jazmine Sullivan "Jesus Loves Me"

2012-01-15T18:50:00.002-06:00

made my day...Yummy Bingham

2012-01-15T18:33:00.003-06:00

oldie but goodie...Tha' Rayne

2012-01-15T18:16:00.001-06:00

inspiration.

2012-01-15T17:37:00.000-06:00

Speak Up!

2012-01-12T20:48:00.000-06:00

Sometimes you have to voice your inside concerns. You should never feel it is ok to be run over or misunderstood. People cant read minds. They barely can read books. Think about it....lesson learned:)

Today's Motto

2012-01-09T19:58:00.002-06:00

Motto - Place your best foot forward at all times...you never know when you may have to back track.

One thing that I have learned from this life is you always have to remain positive because all in all, you will make it! It is just a matter of when. You dont know what opportunity awaits, so you must always be on your best behavior:)

be patient.

2012-01-07T14:14:00.000-06:00

this first week of the new year has really shown me that through patience you can allow your life to fall in its rightful place. we pray and hope that God listens but we forget the fact that He is there all the time. this week started off on 1/1/12 with my girls. we connected for one of my friends b-day and it really and truly made me feel grateful and appreciative for the few friends i do have. it is just amazing to see how far we all have come (all college graduates...whoop whoop!!!). i am so proud of each and every one of them and i know God has so many things in store for them. somehow i could feel the genuineness (if thats a word lol) and the unspoken bond. God i thank U right now!!! later on in this week i started back at work with a new attitude and an open mind. with that said, by letting go of figuring out what was next for me and giving it completely to God, it has definitely been a weight off my shoulders. i know this sounds like a ramble but if you've made it this far, there is a moral...just wait for it lol. on Wednesday, i was able to link up with a lady i have been looking up to since my permanent start with the job i am at now and finally i asked her to be my mentor. she accepted and Lord knows it can only get better for me. hopefully i will be able to decide if where i am now is where i will ultimately be. same day, i was granted an opportunity to give support on a major project that im sure if everything goes well, it will attest to my capability and could help me further my career (i can do ALL things through Christ that strengthens me!!!). the opportunity started the next day, Thursday. if you know me well, i am very anxious, indifferent, and excited all at once when something like this happens to me. Wednesday night my stomach was in knots. i even contemplated about giving a reason why i shouldnt take the opportunity. dare i say i was fearful and all the "i can do all things through Christ that strengthens me" was out the window. but God willing i was successful on Thursday and cannot wait to continue and learn as much as possible from the experience.

the moral of the story is let it go and give it to God completely, not partially, not 50%, not 99.9%, but COMPLETELY. let Him fulfill your dreams. He will not allow you stay in one place forever but you gotta be patient! i know bad days come and Lord knows i have had my few but through it all, God was there all the time. so my mindset now and going forward is through every test, struggle, or situation, God has complete control even though you may feel you have some control. He knows all. one day you could be living under a bridge and the next you are the president of the U.S.A. (i know thats a stretch...but thats just the God i believe i serve). put all your trust in Him and watch Him work.

made my day...Brittany Barber

2012-01-03T19:22:00.002-06:00

made my day...Zshatwa "Yesterday" Cover

2012-01-03T19:21:00.003-06:00

Zshatwa

she is so her...and its beautiful

2011-12-28T18:09:00.000-06:00

She makes me feel like I can be myself. She is such an inspiration. True example of living in your purpose :)

Zebra Stripes

2011-12-28T16:08:00.000-06:00

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

2011-12-24T16:55:00.000-06:00

Plans for the New Year 2012

2011-12-23T22:01:00.000-06:00

So it is that time again. Time to set those yearly goals for the brand new year. Honestly, I am trembling at the thought because everytime goals are set for myself by myself, I tend to not fully complete them. So, my goals for this new year 2012 is to not have any goals at all. I hope to live freely and simply enjoy life. I want to continue in the mindset I am in and if anything tickles my fancy, I vow to jump on it. That's one promise I will keep. Well, keep me in your prayers and I pray everyone has a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!!! :)

Until next time ttyl :)

something to think about...

2011-12-22T20:02:00.000-06:00

made me smile.

2011-12-21T19:38:00.000-06:00

Today's message...Galatians 1:3-4

2011-12-18T11:43:00.002-06:00

Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, who gave himself for our sins to rescue us from the present evil age...

— Galatians 1:3-4 (NIV)

This life is so life. Sometimes I have to stop myself from thinking too hard on things.
God has already paid the price for us.
There is no need to worry because He has us in His hands.
God is so awesome and incredible!
It is not meant for me to know all but for me to know who knows all.
Dont let this life or worldly possessions distract you from the truth and whats important.

Father, thank You for allowing Your son to come down for us.
It is good to know that You care that much and knew the life we would have to live.
Thank You for the rescue!!

love this girl...Priscilla Renea

2011-12-16T21:59:00.001-06:00

made my day...Shei Atkins

2011-12-15T21:52:00.000-06:00

I love this woman so much!!!! :) She is such an inspiration!

made my day...Ashanti and SWV - NEW MUSIC!!!

2011-12-15T19:56:00.000-06:00

made my day!

2011-12-11T17:04:00.001-06:00

Shei Atkins "Spread the Love" FREE DOWNLOAD

2011-12-11T16:42:00.000-06:00

Go here and get your free download of Shei Atkins' ------> Spread the Love

gotta love it!

2011-12-08T19:18:00.000-06:00

made my day...J Moss "Good or Bad"

2011-12-06T18:56:00.000-06:00

made my day...Kierra Sheard "Jesus on Top" Love on Top REMIX

2011-12-05T21:31:00.000-06:00

needed this...missptv9090

2011-12-03T09:49:00.000-06:00

if it was all so simple....

2011-11-30T20:26:00.000-06:00

i dont think i would care so much. i cannot wait until this decision is final. i have a lot on my plate work wise and lets just say, i know 2012 is going to be my year of discovery and overcoming obstacles i never thought i would live to see me get over. ever have that good gut feeling? cant eat, cant sleep, cant think straight...that is me right now...so many directions and so many choices...whats a girl to do?! this time i will let it come to me...less stressful that way...i know this is a ramble...im sorry:) but this is seriously how my head feels right now...hope i make the right decision...im in control either way...will let you know as soon as everything is final.

btw...i think i am going to give up on weight watchers...it is getting pretty boring...the excitement has left the building...im not giving up on losing weight just weight watchers...well ttyl

made my day (CHRISTMAS time!!!!)....Dani Wright ft. Sammie

2011-11-29T17:15:00.000-06:00

random....weight update!

2011-11-28T22:32:00.001-06:00

The holiday season has brought on so many temptations...I gained a pound :/ BUT this week I am going hard!!! Hopefully I am making it up.

inspiration.

2011-11-21T22:24:00.002-06:00

I love our First Lady

2011-11-16T22:41:00.000-06:00

good idea!...weight loss:)

2011-11-14T22:33:00.000-06:00

made my day...Yummy Bingham

2011-11-14T22:14:00.002-06:00

Does anyone know where she is?!

made my day... Kirk Franklin speaking the TRUTH!

2011-11-13T14:19:00.002-06:00

Weight Watchers Update - Down 2 more pounds!

2011-11-11T19:25:00.000-06:00

So now I have lost a total of 9 pounds...yay!

i was looking for this...Brody Brown "Heartrace"

2011-11-10T19:43:00.002-06:00

made my day...Gwen Bunn

2011-11-08T21:46:00.000-06:00

inspiration.

2011-11-07T21:55:00.000-06:00

made my day...LaSean Brown

2011-11-06T21:14:00.000-06:00

Weight Watchers Update!

2011-10-28T19:33:00.000-05:00

So for two weeks now, I have lost 0 pounds BUT! I have lost 1 inch in one week. I wish I would have taken my measurements from the beginning.

I am still going strong. I have been mainly doing sit-ups and rigorous walking.

For this week, I am going to incorporate taebo into my workout.

TTYL:)

made my day J.Moss "Wanna Be With You"

2011-10-25T21:21:00.000-05:00

inspiration.

2011-10-24T22:31:00.000-05:00

made my day...Rolynne'

2011-10-24T22:26:00.000-05:00

Do you still believe in man?

Kierra Sheard's FREE Review

2011-10-23T12:48:00.000-05:00

I had to give a review on this wonderful masterpiece. I got my copy in the mail this Friday, and I cannot stop listening to it. Kierra Sheard definitely out did herself. Each song is relative period. I really cant pick a favorite song because they are all just awesome. This is one of those albums where you cant skip or fastforward.

So from me to you go and GET YOUR COPY!

Let it bless you!!!! :)

made my day...Kierra Sheard

2011-10-23T12:34:00.001-05:00

let it bless you...1 Peter 5:6-11

2011-10-16T11:26:00.000-05:00

1 Peter 5:6-11 New International Version (NIV)

6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. 10 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 11 To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.

I lost...

2011-10-14T20:56:00.000-05:00

2 more pounds! I am so happy. I am finally doing something right with my weight:)

made my day...Bridget Kelly "Thinking About Forever"

2011-10-07T21:41:00.000-05:00

I lost....

2011-10-07T19:09:00.000-05:00

5 pounds!!!!!

Dare I say EXCITED!!!

so nervous

2011-10-06T13:00:00.000-05:00

im getting nervous about my weigh in on Friday...hope this is all worth it

how adorable is this?!

2011-10-05T19:17:00.000-05:00

inspiration.

2011-10-03T19:41:00.002-05:00

Today's message...Jude 1:24

2011-10-02T15:10:00.000-05:00

Jude 1:24 To him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy—

To him who is able - He is Able!!!!! to do ALL!
to keep you - preserve/protect
from stumbling - falling, giving in to temptation/sin
and to present you before his glorious presence - if you want God to use you, you must be kept/protected/preserved so that he may use you
without fault and with great joy - Let's be a joy before His eyes:)

Are you preserved for His purpose?

we can make it if we try...

2011-10-01T18:10:00.002-05:00

I joined Weight Watchers!

2011-09-30T20:09:00.001-05:00

So officially I have joined Weight Watchers. I cannot wait to see the weight come off:)

They are running a special right now. The registration is free until October 15, 2011!!!!

http://www.weightwatchers.com/

Kierra Sheard "Don't Defeat Your Greater You"....when you get a chance...let it bless you!!!

2011-09-27T20:59:00.000-05:00

Im convinced...Weight Watchers!!!

2011-09-23T19:46:00.000-05:00

So, I am going to join weight watchers. I have officially been convinced. I plan to join next week Friday, Sept. 30. My goal is to lose at least 20 lbs. by January 1, 2012. I will definitely be updating via my blog to update me and you guys on my progress. If I slip, please keep me on my toes. :)

God knows who to place in your life to give you the right inspiration.

I hope this is my final straw in me losing weight...IM EXCITED! :)

i was looking for this....JoiStarr "Dehydrated"

2011-09-20T20:02:00.000-05:00

made my day...Jessica Reedy performing "What About Me?"

2011-09-20T19:46:00.000-05:00

I decided!

2011-09-20T19:33:00.000-05:00

Some things you just have to let go...today has confirmed my letting go.

I have to do what is right for me even if it means starting over again...if I dont do it now, I NEVER will.

I know you are wondering what I am letting go of but just to hint w/o telling all.

Dont let money determine your stay.

Today's message...Psalms 46:1

2011-09-18T16:38:00.002-05:00

Today's message was on Psalms 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

God is - He is everything you can think of
Our - not "a" or "my" but OUR!
Refuge and strength - not only is He a place of safety but He is strong...I can think of alot of things that I run to for safety, i.e. parents, friends, music, food, etc. but there is only 1 that gives you the strength to conquer all
A very present - He is right now, forever, always present even before the trouble comes, He is there...He knows, can, and do all things
Help in trouble - God is a good help not just a help..unlike us He is reliable, on time, and is always there for us

made my day...Ashanti "Never too far Away"

2011-09-17T11:09:00.002-05:00

made my day...Shei Atkins - Otis (Remix)

2011-09-16T22:44:00.000-05:00

God I hear your whispers...

2011-09-15T21:51:00.000-05:00

I know my time is coming...

1 more day of this...

2011-09-14T21:07:00.000-05:00

i dont know what to think...if something makes you unhappy day in day out, it would seem the answer would be to let it go or change it BUT it is so not that simple...we'll see after tomorrow what my mind tells me...

made my day...Kirk Franklin "I Smile" Video

2011-09-13T22:17:00.000-05:00

busy week ahead...

2011-09-11T16:19:00.000-05:00

I am just waking up from a much needed nap...work has been soooooooo llllooonnnggg....ive had some lllooonnnnggg weeks...sometimes i dont even know how i make it through

This upcoming week...I have to work from 10-7pm....ugh!...so shall we say no life lol

So, Ive been seriously thinking about taking a vaca at least by the end of Nov. or Dec. Any ideas??!

I was thinking New York or Las Vegas...hmmmmm?!

Well neways this is just a mini-update...bout to get ready to go out to eat:)

ttyl

you have to meditate

2011-09-08T20:26:00.000-05:00

i am learning how to really really really get myself together...you cant count on ppl all the time to make you happy or encourage you...you have to encourage yourself...you have to meditate...talking to God and really letting Him handle all your day to day decisions is such a load off...He always has the answer for you but you have to read His word and simply pray...we are living in a busy world but never lose sight of your creator, redeemer, Savior...He knows wwwwaaayyyy better than you...He just wants your time:)

made my day...JoJo Performing "Safe With Me"

2011-09-08T20:00:00.000-05:00

New Music: 21:03 "Evolved:From Boys to Men"

2011-09-04T22:30:00.001-05:00

Pre-order here at Amazon -----> 21:03 Evolved: From Boys to Men

Today's message...Acts 27

2011-09-04T15:28:00.000-05:00

You can make it on broken pieces!!!

Winds may blow, and the storms may come one after another but as longs as your soul is anchored in the Lord, you will make it!!! :)

made my day...Dondria "Kissed by the Sun"

2011-09-03T11:51:00.000-05:00

hello

2011-09-03T11:31:00.000-05:00

just wanted to say hello on this beautiful saturday...:) how are you guys on this new, beautiful day?

made my day...KING

2011-09-02T19:45:00.002-05:00

weareKING.com

hello september...

2011-09-01T19:47:00.000-05:00

so glad you are here...feels like a fresh start...hello to the new season...finally made it out of 100 degree weather...:)

tomorrow...

2011-08-31T21:05:00.000-05:00

tomorrow sparks a new month...a new beginning...i am so happy for fall...cant wait until it is officially here...this heat is killing me

sometimes...

2011-08-28T11:00:00.001-05:00

Remembering Aaliyah...

2011-08-26T18:40:00.000-05:00

& another 1...Jill Scott's "Hear My Call"

2011-08-24T19:42:00.003-05:00

made my day...Jessica Reedy performing "Put it on the Altar"

2011-08-24T19:13:00.000-05:00

I give it ALL to you Lord!!!

1 me...

2011-08-23T19:10:00.001-05:00

i have to remind myself that i am only 1 person...thats it...i may have many elements...but...

God only made 1 of me!!!

Thank YOU!

2011-08-19T22:25:00.000-05:00

Thank You God for looking out for me continously!!!

Things can be so much worse...

Thanks for listening...I know I can always count on You:)

New Music: Kierra Sheard's "Free"

2011-08-17T20:25:00.002-05:00

In Stores ~~Sept. 13~~ Oct. 18!!!!

I have already preordered mines:)

Pre-Order Kierra Sheard's Free

r u real or fake?

2011-08-14T17:13:00.000-05:00

if God shined His light on you would you shine like a diamond or a cubic zirconia (will u be real or fake)?

twitter: Love1FreeDom (I follow back:))

this past week was crazy...

2011-08-13T09:18:00.000-05:00

At work, I have been given more responsibility and so far, I will say that I am handling it well BUT let's just say it aint easy holding it all together. When I get home, I am completely flustered and just want to crash hence why my social life suffers (and this blog too). Thursday night it was so bad that I cried. I am laying in my bed trying to fall asleep and it all came at once. The tears just came and honestly, they just literally came and the thoughts came after. There are so many changes going on in my life right now. Most are for the good, I know. BUT, going through this fire is crazy. I know someday I will be pure gold, but the road to get there is very cloudy and smoky (this is the best way I can explain).

My mind is steady moving and it hasnt had the chance to release...I need to get back to that. Back to writing, reading, studying, and above all, back to me.

I would like to pose this question...how do you juggle life's battles? How do you make time for you?

Well until next time ttyl:)

a little message from my mind before my work day ends:)

2011-08-12T17:43:00.001-05:00

sometimes you have to step back and let Him show you the way.:) Believe that He has you no matter what. He didnt put that fire in you for you to just let it set and burn out. Let your light shine despite it all. They can blow and even bring you down but God always has the lighter waiting...go get lit up;)

TGIF!!!

apartment or townhouse

2011-08-10T20:09:00.001-05:00

so ive been permanently working for 8 months now and i am of course getting the urge to find my own place. however, i want to be smart about it. i have been saving like crazy and have enough money to make the moves i will choose to make. im at a crossroads between getting an apartment or townhouse. the pros and cons are almost equal for both so idk...what do you think?! ... any advice is greatly appreciated.:)

inspiration.

2011-07-31T11:55:00.000-05:00

New Music: Karina Pasian "When You're in Love"

2011-07-14T21:38:00.000-05:00

Shout Out Loud!

2011-07-09T22:09:00.001-05:00

when will i find her?
is the constant reminder
of where i know He wants me to be
will it sneak up like thunder
or leave me in permanent wonder
i love the sound
even when no one is around
i know it dwells in my heart
and will soon play its part
or again will it?

i just want to shout out loud
stand her ground and make her proud
i know it starts right here and right now

You placed me at the right place for the right time
so why do i worry?
why do i question and leave my burdens unburied?
Just hold My hand
is what You tell me over and over again
You promised me life and it more abundantly
faith with no work leaves me hungry suddenly
for more and more until i can no longer eat
of the bad tree

i just want to shout out loud
stand her ground and make her proud
i know it starts right here and right now